I think it’s safe to assume that you might be like me and want what you want, when you want it.
We work hard. We deserve the rewards, right? I agree.
So, today I want to talk to you about how to magnetize what you want in your life. I do think the process is nuanced, but generally, here are the steps I take myself and my clients through to bring in more of what we desire.
- Check your mindset: Our mindset needs to be aligned with our desired outcome. In The Mindset Cycle, our beliefs direct our thoughts, which inform our actions which guide our lives. Suppose I want to magnetize more money, but at a beliefs level, I don’t feel that I’m worthy of having more money, or that if I do, I’ll just blow it all. In that case, I need to uproot the limiting beliefs and potentially heal the trauma that is standing between me and more money coming through.
- Look at your trauma: Speaking of trauma… According to the National Council for Behavioral Health 70% of adults in the U.S. have experienced some type of traumatic event at least once in their lives. And if we haven't looked at our trauma, it can be impacting our ability to move towards what we want in our lives. In my coaching practice, I often recommend my clients parallel path coaching with therapies like EMDR if trauma is present. The combo works a charm!
- Prime your nervous system: If our bodies feel unsafe to have what we want, we won’t magnetize it. If the idea of more money sends your body into a panicked fight or flight state, you will likely repel that money. And it’s not some esoteric notion…think about it. If you’re walking around in a panicked state all the time, will more clients want to be around you? Likely not. Notice what sends your nervous system reeling.
- Open the portals: You’ve heard me say it before and I’ll say it again. This work is equal parts magical and practical. Once you’ve done the mindset and nervous system magic, you need to take practical action and open the portals for what you want. Going back to our money example, if you want more of that, you need to make sure you have revenue streams in place, buy the lottery ticket, or ask for the raise. We need to take action, and by taking action, we open up a portal for what we want to actually come through.
If you’re ready to magnetize the work and life of your dreams, meet me in a consult call.